One sleepover back in middle school 7th grade? we all wrote down on a piece of paper what we hated about each person and then all were given our piece of paper with out list of faults. What were we thinking? Evidently I kept that piece of paper and now i remember. Man we were idiots.
I think I should burn that little piece of paper.
Just a bit of advice. Never ask people to write down what they think their defects are... bad idea. bad, bad, bad idea.